
St Bartholomew’s, Tong
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March 2025, We Grow More Like Jesus
Lent is a period of 40 days, in which Christians prepare themselves for Holy Week and Easter – for the betrayal, crucifixion and resurrection of Jesus. It lasts from Ash Wednesday (5th March 2025) to Holy Saturday, which is the day Jesus spent in the tomb until the resurrection dawn.
The word Lent has roots in Old English words for spring. So, as we observe the natural world beginning to come to life again, full of the promise of summer growth and sunshine, we take the time to look at what is growing in our own lives, and ‘garden’ our own growth as children of God, sisters and brothers of Jesus Christ.
That is why Lent has traditionally been a time for fasting and prayer: we are ‘weeding out’ the kind of growth that is likely to stunt and smother the flowers and fruit we long to see in our lives as disciples of Christ. And part of the challenge, of course, is to work out which are the weeds and which are the flowers. To do this, we need to focus on Jesus.
Will you be making pancakes on Shrove Tuesday as we prepare for the start of Lent and our journey with Christ to the cross.
All blessings
Revd. Mike
Saturday Tours Return
The regular Saturday morning tours will start again in March on the first Saturday of each month at 11.00am.
£5 per head for an hour’s tour.
January/February 2025, news views and muse
Dear Friends
Lent begins late this year, with Ash Wednesday on March 5th. This means that we have an extended season of Epiphany. We now have all of February to be surprised by God’s presence in unexpected people and places, and to find new ways in which God makes love known.
February may seem a strange time to think in this way, with cold temperatures, dark mornings and early sunsets. But perhaps divine light is more vivid against a grey and snowy sky.
I have seen this light so clearly within this community of Tong and I thank God for all of you. I’m grateful for the compassion and kind wishes when people are sick and dying.
The warmth of our congregation is palpable and precious. I give thanks for all that is offered by so many people who provide for our mission, maintain our buildings, prepare for our worship, and for the help and support that you have given to me and Jess during this time as we await a new Priest in charge.
This congregation responds to need readily and sacrificially, and often in hidden ways.
As we walk forward, I am grateful for this extended season of Epiphany. I am grateful for this reminder and opportunity to discover where God’s light shines. Blessings to all of you as we continue this journey together.
Rev’d Mike
Arab and Jew, Ishmael and Isaac
I have loved the stories of the Old Testament since a dedicated and faithful teacher at school enthused about them and their significance and as I watch the “highlights” of the terrible conflict between Israeli and Arab I ruminate on the separation of Abraham’s two sons, Ishmael and Isaac.
If you are unfamiliar with the story, as told in Genesis Chapter 12 and onwards, the ageing Abraham decides to leave his homeland and then travels to Canaan with his wife Sarah and his livestock. They have no children although Abraham believes God has promised him an heir – but they are old and no heir appears, so he and Sarah decide to take matters into their own hands as God isn’t delivering, so Sarah gives her husband Hagar, her Egyptian maid, to do the business. The resultant child is named Ishmael and although he is not the promised son, nonetheless he is still blessed by God and becomes the ancestor of the Arab peoples.
Further waiting ensues not to mention disbelieving laughter when Sarah hears that she is going to become a mother at last, but as Mary heard centuries later, “nothing is impossible with God” and in due course the long promised heir is born, Isaac. Isaac in turn was the father of the twins, Esau and Jacob and it was the latter who was renamed Israel – so you see where this thread is leading.
When Sarah’s status as a mother was established, she regretted that she had preempted God’s plan by promoting Hagar and there is tension in the kitchen, so there is a sad parting when Abraham sends Hagar and his son away, though Ishmael is cared for and although he drops out of the narrative, his future is assured and the prophet Mohammed is said to be his descendant. It doesn’t do to tell God how to run His affairs.
So the great Patriarchal story common to Judaism, Islam and Christianity has tensions within it from the beginning. Isaac was promised the land and Ishmael was to be the founder of a great nation. Israel fiercely defends its territorial rights, though in Christianity we see Jesus as the fulfilment of God’s promises where Jews and Gentiles ( including Arabs) can live together in peace. However the complex historical, social and political factors that have developed over the centuries despite the common heritage, make that day still seem a long way off.
Pippa
December 2024 news, views and muse
National Characteristics
An English friend who has lived in Switzerland for 20 years or so came to visit us recently. She was telling us that all young Swiss men have to do military service and that they are issued not only with Swiss Army knives but also with firearms, which when their time of national service comes to an end, they are allowed to keep. The result is that there are more guns in the hands of civilians in Switzerland than there are in the whole of America. She asked her friends in her adopted country why there were no mass shootings in Switzerland and they looked at her quite perplexed and said “because it is against the law”. That is how we think of that nation as being law-abiding, industrious, and rather serious, the fatherland of Zwingli and Calvin who were dedicated Protestant reformers in the late fifteenth and early sixteenth centuries, at the time of Martin Luther in nearby Germany and of John Knox who brought the austere reformed tradition to Scotland. Five hundred years later it seems the Swiss have remained in the same mould.
And yet the Pilgrim Fathers who landed in Massachusetts about fifty years after John Calvin’s death were also Puritans of his ilk, but there have been so many other influences in America from the native peoples already there to the countless waves of settlers who looked for a better life in the Brave New World, to the continuing stream of migrants from Mexico, South America and the Caribbean, a real hotchpotch of peoples, some of whom have unbridled mental issues, scores to settle and guns that they can buy and use without the military training of the Swiss gun owners.
Switzerland has always guarded its borders and demanded conformity to its national standards over the centuries so that it has maintained its moral disciplines. It is the home of the UN – where our friend works – of precision engineered watches, of a railway system that works to the minute and a lot else besides. I cannot pigeonhole the Swiss any more than I can say why the Americans voted in Donald Trump, a convicted criminal, as their President, but it occurs to me that the seemingly duller countrymen and women landlocked in their neutral territory in the middle of Europe might be less exciting but a good deal safer than the unpredicatable ‘special relationship’ we are bemused by on the other side of the Atlantic.
Pippa
November news, views and muse 2024
Happenings:
During October we had two special services at Tong. On 6th October Revd Jess led a wonderful Harvest Praise which was very well attended and the children made it very special with their harvest gifts. Later in the month Revd Jess had the pleasure of conducting the wedding of Rory and Alyssa and we send our congratulations to them both as they begin their married life together.
On Sunday 3rd November we celebrate our All Souls memorial at 11am at St Bartholomew’s and again Revd Jess will be leading the congregation as we remember those who have died this year, and also we remember members of our families and friends that we think of each year as we continue without them , never forgotten. Please join us as we meet to remember all who have died.
November also brings us another day of remembrance as we give thanks for all those who gave their lives in the service of our country over two world wars and in more recent conflicts.
I will be leading the Remembrance Day service on Sunday 10th November at 10.55, again please join us to give thanks together.
Sunday 24th November gives us chance to celebrate together with Clare and Bradley who are to be married at Tong.
As we approach the end of the month we think of the coming of Advent on November 30th as we look forward to the coming of our Lord, as we prepare ourselves for Christmas.
I wish you all an incredibly happy Advent to come.
With Blessings
Revd Mike
It feels like Advent:
As children, opening the little doors on the Advent calendar got us through the long slow days waiting for Christmas. At boarding school, we sang:
“Nearer and nearer draws the time, the time that shall surely be
When the ‘Ma’s and ‘Pa’s will come up in their cars to set their children free”. And we crossed off the days.
But it isn’t Advent. How many times have I preached on waiting silently and patiently, expecting and hoping, though currently waiting for the Americans to elect Kamala Harris as President, or the hostages to be returned from Gaza, or for Ukraine to beat Russia has tinges of Waiting for Godot which played a major part in my dissertation at university; the outcomes are so uncertain and may be different altogether from what we hope for.
This year personally has been one long wait but at least thus far the outcomes have been satisfactory; my 80th birthday party…much preparation to gather family and friends, choose the venue and the menu – and it was all right on the night! Then the sword of Damocles hanging over our heads as we waited for major surgery on an aneurysm my husband didn’t know he had, or alternatively for the aorta to burst before the knife was inserted; but it was inserted and he now travels the long road to recovery from the 6-hour operation.
We wait still to put our house back on to the market and to be sold so that we can move, as anticipated a year ago, to live nearer our children and grandchildren and which has been delayed because of the Big Op, so I am living in two worlds, known to theology students as the Now and the Not Yet ( there’s an impossible word for that) with the furniture here gradually dwindling ( the piano went yesterday) and the preparations there for curtains, shelves, TV licence, Thames Water bills (!) and the anxious anticipation of new neighbours. Neither of us has ever lived outside this small area of East Shropshire/South Staffordshire. Our parents and grandparents and even further back have their bones interred in this soil.
Everyone knows about waiting – in a GP surgery when you might be told bad news, for an operation when moving is difficult or painful, for a bus in the wind and the rain, for a child who is late coming home. I was struck by the interview with the comedian Miranda Hart who has revealed she had been largely bed-bound for the last few years, unable to work, unable sometimes even to make the effort to stretch out her hand for a glass of water, and living alone, but she has at long last had a diagnosis for her decades of chronic fatigue which is Lyme’s Disease and for which she is now receiving treatment. She has learnt how to wait positively and just enjoy the tree outside the window of her bedroom blowing in the wind. Herself a Christian who would subscribe to the disciplines of Advent she has found her own way to turn them to good use. In her bed, in our queue, waiting room, anxious times, she commented “I have learnt to consider carefully what is the next loving and right action to bring joy and meaning in life. If you can demonstrate to another person that they have been heard, accepted, loved and seen as you patiently wait, your time has not been wasted”.
Pippa
October news, views and muse 2024
How the Other Do unto others as you would have them do to you (Mathew 7:12)
I have nothing against Sikhs. My mother, an offspring of the Raj, was born in Peshawar (then India, now Pakistan) and her first words were in Hindustani with her Ayah.
Later in life, much to my embarrassment, she would greet all Sikhs she met in Wolverhampton as if they were long lost family members.

I do find it distasteful however, that an MP, should rent out flats with black mould and ant infestations and then admit finally that his flats do not have the correct property licences required under a scheme that he introduced as a Council leader. Hypocrisy and lying (about the property licences initially) and profiteering, not to mention intimidation, since many of the tenants were afraid if their identities were revealed they would be evicted, are particularly unbecoming for an MP, and Jas Athwal has recently been elected to the Labour benches – though interestingly, according to the BBC, he is the biggest landlord in the House of Commons. He happens to be a Sikh which won’t impress any would-be rioters who are not now in prison for rioting against “foreigners”, but nor does it impress me, because he is not upholding the tenets of his religion which like all the main faiths advocates social justice and service to humanity, honesty, humility and generosity alongside spiritual devotion and reverence for God. I would not argue over any of those ideals as a Christian.
Following the in-depth report running to seven volumes of the Grenfell Tower fire and the whole catalogue of failures at every level in the same week, I fear passing the buck at every opportunity, we have become corrupt as a nation at almost every level, unwilling to be accountable and often irresponsible. It has, however, been impressive how the former residents of the tower who survived the appalling fire have stuck together as a community. But what a catalogue of mismanagement, turning a blind eye to what should be done to make life safe for their fellow human beings. And Mr. Atwal’s flats allegedly had fire alarms hanging loose, dirty communal areas with dumped white goods in them with no lights on the stairs. Yet he committed to writing: “Rogue landlords, we are coming for you.” He is a disappointment to other Sikhs though we cannot tar them all with his brush. He is a disappointment to the human race, to his God and ours. And he’s an MP.

Miniature Sikh figures I inherited
Pippa
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